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Okay, I've seen body builders and women who are more muscular than most men, and so yah, I'd be completely attracted to dating a female body builder/weightlifter. I wish I could say that I want to get married and have children, and live a long life as a husband and providing father and supporter to my family. But I wonder now, how many women would even feel comfortable living with me. I don't need physical attention very often, tend to keep my stronger feelings in check, and like having time to myself. But I also like a sense of belonging, and I share feelings that I've given a good enough deal of thought over. You won't hear snap-decisions. I take my time and look at things from all angles, and decide what's better for all involved, taking into consideration her thoughts as well. It's been hard for me to find the right one, because I tend to keep people at a safe distance, yet I feel very alone in doing so. Loneliness can become a fate worse than torture, to me, but I've learned plenty from my mom this past fall. My mother took more than half her life in order to find someone that she could believe in. Their relationship put love on a back burner and focused on simple compatibility. Love seems to throw monkey wrenches into relationships because the feelings are all wild and over the place. You can go from love to hate in a matter of minutes, and I feel many of you nodding your heads. For me, something less intense, yet more steady and stable, is the way I'd rather be.
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